Saturday, July 18, 2009

Anger vs Irritation vs Detox

I woke up in a weird mood today. At first, I couldn't tell what it was. I got my cuppa and went out to the patio where John was already having his cuppa, a cig and reading the paper. I sat down, said "Good Morning" and watched as he read the paper. No conversation, just reading and then it hit me. I was angry. Not at John. I couldn't tell WHAT I was angry at or with or whatever! John and I have been married for almost 22 years and he knows when I get in a "mood", he just lets me be. That was a very good idea today.

After a bit, I realied I wasn't really angry at all, I was irritated. To me, there was a difference. I didn't want to yell or scream or throw things, I just wanted to be left alone to deal with this indifference I was feeling inside. I warned Tony that I was irritated today and he said "at what?" and I said I don't know. He says, "You know, you may be detoxing." OMG! That's it!!

After he said that and I let it soak in I actually felt a little better. I had a name for how I felt. I've been through detox before when I was on a diet and I stuck to it, but at that time, I didn't realize my feelings were because my body was changing and clearing out crap, and with the crap, go those feelings associated with the crap.

So, I let my body do its thing, getting rid of old waste and old feelings. I just let them flow. Let them out. I didn't like it one bit, but it has to be done. Thank god I have an astute kid and that my memory actually remembers bits and pieces of things. I remember reading about detoxing way back when I started juicing and Cindy and I discussed it. Years ago, I would've been on some diet doing really well and these same feelings would come up and I wouldn't know what to do with them so I'd get frustrated and eat. And then eat some more to cover those feelings. What a cycle!

I did a little retail therapy today because I needed to get out of the house. I made tilapia and zucchini for dinner and I feel terrific. I'm pretty sure part of my "mood" today was I needed nourishment in the form of protein but I didn't realize it at the time. I learn something new every single day.

I am so thankful for my insightful family and friends. I need them and love them to bits.

Down to 255 today. Half way through the 50's already!

3 comments:

  1. so so so happy for you (and YEAH for kids like Tony!!!)
    I realized a day or two ago I was detoxing BAD and it's such a big relief to figure that out and just the day BE, instead of fighting it!

    Deb!!! I am so happy for you and proud of what you are learning and accomplishing!

    WOO HOO
    xoxoxox

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  2. Glad Tony helped you figure it out, though I'm still not sure about detoxing and how it affects one's moods.

    Yay for you for getting out, getting a change of scenery, and getting a dose of retail therapy.

    BTW, I bet the banana didn't agree with you because it acted like a sponge, soaking up liquid, which your new tummy didn't like.

    And lastly, your redecoration on your blog looks fabulous.

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  3. hang in there!! I remember when I was doingf the atkins diets and I was litterly climbing out of my skin for carbs..I was told to get some chromium something I can't remember, but I did and took it for 3 days, then I was fine..but I tell ya, quitting smoking is easier than staying on track with an eating plan!! AT least for me. I am happy to see you have a good family support system in place!! Keep it up!
    :)

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